how do you judge someone's character?

well, during this duty week quite alot of things happened... oh ya.. before i forget (again)

Happy belated birthday to my mum and sis... i totally forgotten to wish them happy birthday during my one week duty in camp...still owe them a treat/present..reallie dun know what can i get for them...

apart from that, one thing tat made me think/ponder.. sometimes people judge others based on what they personally see or hear from their peers... but is it right to jump to conclusion that a particular person is so-and-so based on what you see or hear?

cuz sometimes we do not see what they do "behind the scenes" or when we didn't notice them..

how would you feeel if people judge you based on what they see of you? i believe many will be sad/unjustified... but i think thats reality and the true harsh fact of society...